Standard Bank Lending Consultants still keep phoning me. Help!!!

Looks like Standard Bank is still taking its time resolving this matter. Today at 15:16 Nomonde called me and despite me telling her that this matter is being attended to she insisted she will call me again. She instructed me to phone the attorneys Strauss Dally and ask them why they are not sending the money I am paying to Standard Bank, I told her that since I did not instruct the lawyers to begin with I do not think it is my responsibility to phone the bank, they, Standard Bank should phone the attorneys. She was very rude and inconsiderate and not listening to what I was saying. I now think its high time Standard Bank writes off this debt, I have suffered enough and if I were to take this harrassment up to the courts I am sure they will be lenient with me. I am truly worn out with this harrassment especially today as I was among people who regard me highly but that call was so so embarrasing.