STANDARD BANK DISGUSTING TREATMENT!!

My car financed through standard bank, and i missed 2 months installments. After 5 years of paying for my car on time every single year, i had a bad patch this once and that was it for STD Bank to send their lawyers to repossess my car.

I asked for a term extension, or at least another way where i can pay for the arrears and they refused. I am only left with just over 20K to finish off paying my car.

Does my loyalty of paying the car for 5 years without fail not count? why do i suspect that you are trying to make a quick buck out of my car? Why are they being so horrible to me? They made me feel like a ******** for even asking for a term extension. This is shocking South Africa. All I am asking for is a term extension or a suggestion on how to pay the 2 missed installments, that's it. But that is not possible and i must surrender my car?? how will i get to work or drop off my child to school? After 5 years of loyalty ... This is what i get???