Oak Creek Spur waiters use my kindness for money

I am a regular Spur patron. Little over a month ago I lost my one earpod at Oak Creek Spur in Parys. I contacted the waitress via Facebook to ask if she could look for it. She didn't find it but we became friendly. This is where my nightmare started. She was always friendly but soon started asking for financial help, which I gave. It then became a daily ask. Always they don't have food, they don't have rent and then she has to take her mother to the doctor and then she needed a doctor. She also complained about her phone so I gave her a new Honor 400. Every time she would use sweet words and finally I realized I was trapped in this cycle of her and her mom, who also works at the same Spur. I just want to make sure nobody else gets caught like me. And now I cannot use that Spur because they work there and might come begging again. And I stay in Parys.

I have records of all the money which exceed R5000