Humiliation and verbally abused

I have been to spitz at johannesburg town on plein street, entering there wanted to make a laybe for kids shoes.i was assisted by a man and as he asked me what i am looking for ....knowing he can help me i responded saying ...."i am looking for shoes for three kids" instead of him asking me sizes and assist me further ...he made a comment that i must buy a TV ....which means i have too many kids because i do not watch Television ...everytime i keep my self busy making kids. I felt so down not angry but humiliated , disrespected,verbally abused and badly judged.i never thought going to shop to buy staff for your kids can bring shame on someone who is a mother of morethan one child.i do not regret having my kids as much as i did not go to spitz to ask the man for help with money or anything to support my kids.i never realise that shopping at spitz you need to be having only one child.....must i kill my kids to be able to shop at spitz so that i dont feel like i am after making kids or may be spitz must buy me that Television so that i can become a better woman than what i am.