Srd sassa grant

I'm Hilda Mokone and I'm struggling with R350 grant since the beginning of this year...it keeps on saying approved then changes to referred so I went to sassa and the security lady and guy told me that they don't help people with R350 grant they will help if I wand to register for for child support grant...I went back again and I met so lady who works there and she checked gor me and she asked me if I'm working or not so I told her that I'm not working and she said when it says referred it means I'm getting a salary but I'm being investigated so it's been long now and I'm losing my patience please help 1)June 2022 it says decline 2)July 2022 it says decline 3)January 2023 it says decline 4)March 2023 it says referred 5)April 2023 it says referred 6)May 2023 it say referred 7)June 2023 it says referred 8)July 2023 it says referred 9)August 2023 it says referred 10)September it says pending I just want to know that how can it says source of income while I'm unemployed and there's no one who is sending money to my account o