Nedbank homeloan is a **** to kill black people with depression

Hi am I the only one that was approved by Nedbank homeloans and they took back their homeloan just because I was on martenity leave for 4 months and they sent me an email saying I am they one canceling my bond with them and I complained to their department with *** . I am trying to buy a house for my family why is it so difficult to get a house in South African system I don't qualify for a RDP house but still getting a bond is another nightmare what can a person do with such banks making it difficult for us even my FLISP approved what is going to happen with that money now because I had an approved bond with Nedbank