Homeloan pain

So Nedbank is at it again.. The first time they tried to auction our home without justification, begging us to please not make it public knowledge (newspaper). Years down the line and my house now paid six years in advance and a small amount outstanding only because we did not want to give up the bond and they start their ****.

I have never been contacted by anyone from Nedbank and receive an sms from lawyers stating that the balance be paid... I have lost my husband last year and now the accounts are finally frozen (which is complete bad experience with Nedbank also) almost a year later of continuing payment of the bond and they do this... I can go on and on... How dare they... I cant believe after all these years they couldnt contact me but pass on things to lawyers... Maybe i should just withdraw all the extra money in the bond and pay as normal for the next six years like i should have.... Not as if they care about the clients that are doing it the right way... I know people who are so behind in their payments and haven't received any notification yet i immediately get handed over..