terrible to toddlers

While shopping with my two year old daughter. After our purchases we were exiting seems as if I know the procedure at the store better then some of the employees. As we stopped for the goods checked the security lady didnt bother looking at my slip she instructed a man that was not even an employee at the store to search my daughter which I didnt allow. Upon complaining to the manager the security didnt seem to have been reprimanded. It appeared as if they were friends. Most unprofessional ********* service, never had I experienced this and considering the amount we have spent in the store on furniture I feel like returning every bit of it and never will I shop there again. Really hope this doesnt occur again as us parents need to protect our kids and not allow anyone to touch and by the way everything was paid for so I felt it was prejudice toward us. THE MANAGER DISSAPPOINTED ME