Worst Treatment ever

Hi my name is Jutty Mabokano my husband passed away on 18 August 2018.I lived in Limpopo while my husband was working here in Gauteng. I started going to MIBFA in Sept 2018 for my husbands provident fund , To date I have not received the money every time I go to their offices they keep giving me excuses that my husbands family told them that me and my husband were separated and they should not give me his money. Me and my husband never separated and we were married in community of property .The consultant who deals with my case's name is Samantha she is based at the offices at 42 Anderson St, Marshalltown, Johannesburg, 2107. Samantha is very rude she even tells me that I am very young I should look for a job and stop running after my husbands money. My husband name is Steven Phahledi Mabokano.