Quest broke my car and want me to have *** before they pay to get my car fixed

Quest garage in senekal, the petrol attendant broke my car. He placed a bonnet holding stick on top of a pipe feeding water to the engine as I was driving I noticed my car was overheating and I saw smoke. I parked the car and got out ppl came to assist me. The stick broke the pipe and caused a lot of damage to my engine I then called quest manager he told me he will bring help as I'm a women alone there which he never did. Around 8pm I managed to get a towing truck . When I got to senekal I wet to the garage and the owner told the manager to pay me the amount that is needed to fix my car as the petrol attendant apologized and accepted his ignorance. But t Days passed leading to me going to the police about it and manager said I must bring cotation they'll pay. Which I did. But later he told me I must tell the petrol attendant to resign first if I want my money So it's months now I don't have my car and it cost me a lot of money to servive as I ended having to pay full time tsansport for my kids to get to school also myself to work.. What makes things worse is the same manager pursuit a relationship with me as if like if I want them to pay then I must have *** with him 1st. When I refused his offer he banned me from coming to his petrol station even when I'm using my work s car I can't go to quest to pure petrol. His treating me like I did something wrong yet all I need is for quest to pay me I even have to put my car on the market because I don't have money to get it fixed