Very poor shame

I work 60 km away from Bloemfontein and left my 10 year daughter in the care of my cousin and they financially depended on me.I usually stay with the for four days at a time, but sometime i travel daily to Dealesville and back. I bought this cellphone to be in contact with my daughter while I am away. However since my daughter is still too young to handle the phone responsibly,my cousins keeps it under her care. The phone registered on my name and it remains my property. I also use it whenever i am present