Gepf

Good day I've lost my husband six months ago I'm a widow struggling I've put my claim of the 5 years balancing and the monthly spouse pension. I'm a widow I'm not working I don't have any income I'm a about to loose my house my kids were kicked out from the school because of my financial problem it is very sad that the widows must struggle to get their husbands money that they worked for . I keep calling gepf they keep on telling that my file is at the payment section from the 24 May 2023 no movement on the file. I have asked them if are working on the file or is it just lying there they say it's not yet finalized. Really widows are suffering I'm suffering with the kids I kept borrowing money from the people now the loan sharks repossessed my furniture. Sometimes I feel like killing myself because of depression plz help