Frustrated by the uncer*****y of the processes and move in

I got a 95% approval in April and was told that I will move in in 3 months time. I signed hapy letter in around 10 July and the attorneys told me the pension loan to cover 5%,wsd not included in the quote I signed.. So we had to request amendments and ended up getting 100% we signed by the lawyers on 2/08 and we were told we could move in 5-10 days after signing since all was done before... Still today we haven't moved. My husband has to go to limpopo to work there by September we didn't want him to move to limpopo before in. And honestly the answers I get from the office at leopard rest are not convincing that we will move before month end. I am not sure if the lawyers has everything to lodge still. The process has been soo frustrating that at some stage we wanted to cancel the whole thing because we couldn't plan our lives around move in date. I have to constantly beg my husband not to cancel because I forced him to bought at leopard rest.. If I knew the process was going to be this way I would have bought an existing house. House number is 5750