Bad experience

I sent someone money after that I find out that she is ******** me coz she said I must deposit R200 to get the product I sell I sell herbal products so she didnt send again she send me message she said I must upgrade to get more product and send him R500 again and I do send her , so when I calm her she don't answer my phone .I went to capitec bank yesterday at around 16:50 and they told me they can't reverse the money if that other person it's not agreeing .for heavens sake it's my money and you can see I send it to her account