claim being processed after funeral

I'm mourning the death of my mother. Whom I'm supposed to bury on saturday. How am I going to bury my mother when I'm being told that the money for the funeral will only reach me after the funeral. How do I feel better on burying my mother well if avbob will deduct just fine at the end of the month. But won't paywhen you claim. How am I supposed to feel really better at this moment. If it was my choice ,I wasn't gonna let God take my mother.