Horrible Customer Service Avoid if you are a woman

I am really unhappy, sad, offended, and feel marginalised by the experience I receive at SMD and the way they are treating me as a woman. I purchased a car online, and when I arrived to collect the car it had additional damages than those disclosed. When I mentioned I do not want to take the car, the manager of the SMD in Blackheath Cape Town simply told me I live in Cape Town I should have verified the car's condition before buying and paying for it. Also, he blamed me as a first-time buyer that I should have sent someone who knows SMD processes to help me with the purchase. When I mentioned I need my refund, he told me his "hands are tied" and if I don't collect the car he will charge me for storage. I feel like am currently being bul**** by this company into taking something I do not want. I was open to alternative refund methods like credit in my online account so I can buy something else, but they are forcing me to take what I do not want