Fails to pay ex spouse of the members funds

I and my ex husband was married for 9 years ,upon Divorce the court ordered that the Post office retirement fund which is at Sanlam has to pay me 50% out of my ex husbands funds ,I submitted the legal documents,just to get a dissapointed reply back that the fund don't pay out the ex spouse ,I'm entitled to my share but they refuse to help me and say I cant have it because it is only for him till his death ,how should I live I sacrifice my all in that marriage just to get nothing in return ,Sanlam Admin Melanie Gordon stated he doesn't have a active account and he has taken all he's funds which is untrue ,I have proof that he has only taken a 3rd but not even the court order help and they said not even a lawyer can help ,what is rights,don't I have rights to have my share? Rozette Phillips admin also send a mail stating she wI'll ignore and the divorce section says there is no funds ,I just want my share which are legally entitled to me