Cold Blooded, heartless people

The same thing happen to me like with Louisa S. I received a call from a Annete (maybe false name) and was offered a loan of R9280 and will be paid into my account in the next 5 working days. She said the took over SA Multi Loan and they are giving their old clients this offer. I asked her if I can tell my wife that we will be able to buy our kids's school stuff and she promised me yes I can. Last night I even promised my 5year old and 14year old kids that they do not have to worry they will have everything ready for school. When I called this company this morning to hear how far are they with this loan I was told that I will not get this R9280 but a cash back after I paid R16493.90. When I asked her why does this sms I receive dont state anything about R9280 she told me some times the wording is wrong because they have other devisions in this same company. After she took all my details and made me go to my bank to activate internet banking to load the installment (wich I must pay back) I received the contract via the 2nd sms. Still it did not reflect R9280 and made me phoned the call centre number just to find out I was taken for a fool. I dont mind been taken for fool because I pray and God always comes through for me but to make me promise my kids that their school clothing and books and stuff will be ready................ How do I face them tonight when I get home? They will never trust me again. They will see me as a ****. Do something to this people. They are breaking up families. They are breaking up relationship between parents and kids. God will never leave them like this. God bless this Annete person who phoned me and if it is a false name God knows who you are. My wife is already in tears and because of this people.