Being called mthakathi when wearing beads

Ever since the complain of ************** they haven't came back to me,so I guess to them it's nothing being called mthakathi it's a sick joke whereas it has affected me psychologically, emotionally and physically,i have lost self esteem,I'm afraid of who I am as a sangoma because I was once judged by that,can't apply for other jobs, the damage they caused me is painful very depressing.