Outbonus nightmare and discouraging policy review

just when I thought and offcorse was happy to get an outbonus from the company that I recommend to many people for that matter and I was going to surprise my wife with something with the bonus, the companies consulted named Mduduzi calls me and asks if I know about it of which I answer "offcorse", he then continues to ask for numbers I can give him to call and invite those people to join Outsurance of which I tell him that I am a bit busy at work can we reschedule, of which we did at that time but the guy doesn't call but after a few days the same guy Mduduzi calls my wife and tells her that I am getting an outbonus and if my wife can give him the contact numbers for people he can get to join the company I(the policy holder) will even get 15% of discount in my monthly premiums. My wife after hearing that I was getting money and had not told her my house turned upside down because now I was hiding things from her, where as the Outsurance consultant had no business disclosing that and he should have tried to get the numbers another way. I am disappointed that they cant even resolve this now and worse even their policy review gives you an increase rather than a decrease in premiums.