MY FAMILY COMES FIRST

I have never felt like a nobody in my life. Going through a divorce and having a lot of other conflicting issues that are clouding my judgement - I had a rude call from a debt collector on medical bills that are due amounting to almost R4000.00. My reality at this stage is that I want to ensure the debt is settled as I am awaiting funds from my employer due to a salary increase which is being affected in February 2015. I did promise to pay R500.00 but am sure that if anyone had to choose kids over debs - my children's needs come first! As a new single mother joggling a life with kids who are no longer under my roof is strenuous - This man called me shouting at me calling me names and he also sent me emails threatening to send sheriffs and list me on credit beuro! if this is the way these people are - they should go ahead and do what suits them - their threats do not move me!!!