Flight Attendant who is rude disrespectful

so I'm a big woman and if that's not bad enough you have a passenger who need to sit next to you gasp when he sees he's in the middle. then to ensure you don't invade his space you fold your arms as much as you can over your side the to then have a flight attendant to go through the full flight and only ask you if you wearing a seat belt and after you say yes for her then to say \show me". not only was this humiliating I found her tone rude and disrespectful. Mpho you a rude woman. learn to show your customers respect. humiliating a customer and being as rude & disrespectful as you were is not acceptable. """