Gangster debt collectors

I received several calls from these people never threatening me before but today was so much different, I couldn't even make out the guy's name who called me but he was so rude. Not even allowing me the opportunity to explain that i had lost my job due to COVID as did hundreds of thousands of other people, I do understand that i have an obligation to pay my accounts but since the pandemic hit us first my husband lost his job at the very start of the pandemic and i have to pick up the slack and i could not fulfil my own duties to pay my accounts but now i am being threatened with sheriffs who will come to my door. What am i supposed to doif i dont have an income and i have a roof to pay for or my kids and i will be on the street. I am so angry im literally shaking and having heart palpitations, what will happen if i end up in hospital or better still dead as a result of stress then who will harrass next, my family? I have always paid all my accounts and never skipped a payment once and to be treated like this as if i was the only one not paying my account. They are truly unbelievable and disgusting. They are behaving like gangsters with guns pounding on my door.