Incredible Connection Online Order Is The Pits

I am so not happy. After 2 days of placing an order online, they keep telling me that the order is still sitting on payment pending (well today they say its on canceled) because I paid through PayFlex, I then contacted PayFlex they tell me that the order is now sitting with Incredible Connection and has been payed. This has been the worst online shopping experience I have ever encountered! Do i really have to wait 2 days just to place an order? my biggest fear is that, after all this, they will be telling me that they are out of stock and I will then have to wait an additional 2-5 days just to get the merchandize.