Shameful Bartender

A friend and I (both women) were sitting at the bar waiting for a table. A black bartender approaches us trying to make conversation but was disrespectful. He was trying to hit on my friend but got no response. He then asked about our relationship and whether or not we were dating, and who is the \man"in the relationship. He was not the one serving us so I don't understand his need to talk to us. I find this to be very rude as our ***ual orientation and whether or not my friend and I are dating is none of his business. He continued to make small talk about my friend and I's relationship and the purpose of our visit to Hudson's Burger Joint"