The Manager & Middle finger

Took my family to dinner @ restaurant in Hazyview Cabanas. On arriving @ the restaurant I moved 2 tables together. The waiter said I must go speak to the Baas. The Baas was behind the bar and when I arrived he asked me if I go to Spur do I rearrange their table. I apologised for moving the tables. After returning to our table we decided to rather leave. I apologised again and told him that we will rather leave. I will not use the language he used but he told me to go away and that he will make sure we are removed from the resort by the resort management. We left and he accused me of showing him the middle finger. I told him that my entire family was with me and I will not do something like that because our kids was with us. He did not believe me and ran behind the bar to meet me and my family outside the restaurant. He kept accusing me of showing him the middle finger and got very aggressive when both my wife and mother told him that it's not true and he must just please leave us alone. The language he used towards my wife and her mother was horrible. The situation was so bad my 6 year old daughter started crying. I have never been so humiliated in my life in front of my family.