Excessive FOREX charges

Unhappy with forex charges amounting to 48% of the money I sent to my grandson

I sent the following email - no response :-

I am very unhappy, another R 404 .37 was deducted. What is going on????

13/1/2026 SWIFT Comm R70,00 13/1/2026 Gift to grandson R1 672,83 19/1/2026 SWIFT Comm R70,00 19/1/2026 Gift to grandson R1 168,99 22/1/2026 Bank Charges R417,93 22/1/2026 Bank Charges R417,96 30/1/2026 Bank Charges R404,37 Bank Charges +SWIFT R1 380,26 48% of gift amount !!!!! Gift to grandson R2 841,82 *** NB: Son paid ABA bank charges @ 2x $10 as well