Be careful when you order something on eBay

I bought something on ebay on February and paid it same day. I was told to expect the item on 7 May. 7 may passed and still didn't my item. I contacted them about that was ask if I want to reorder or a refund ? I opted for refund because it took me three months waiting for that item so now I must wait again for another 3 months no way. On Monday they told me that the money was refunded but up until now I haven't receive a cent in my bank account. I will never trust ebay again and will never buy anything again.