Still an ******* alien after almost THREE YEARS

My child who was born on 23 March 2018 STILL has not been registered because home affairs personnel found it fit to keep sending me back everytime I went and TRIED getting him registered! In total i've been there 14 times(once every month after his birth) then I just gave up basically. Their reason for this stupidity was because my marriage took long to get registered as my husband, my childrens father, has been married before and his previous marriage was still not entirely sc****d. I even told the numerous staff members who "helped" me to jist register him on my ****en name just so he can get into the system! They even refused that giving me all sorts of excuses about if and when the marriage finally gets registered that it would then be a long process to have him put onto his fathers surname. Now my question is this: HOW COME unmarried couples can register their children on the fathers surname but it was such an issue to do the same for me?! I am really fed up now! I was there for a "late registration" appointment in Feb of this year, got another appointment for an 'interview' in Aug where I had to xplain why the child has not been registered yet(as if its my fault) and then lockdown happened. When I was there during level 4 to register my level 5 born baby, I just asked what is going to happen now as to seeing its lockdown and the ugly attitude I got from that employer??? Omw! It was disgusting, I rather walked out as I really did not want to cause a scene and risk being thrown out.

Now with all of that being said... I am on the verge of divorcing! The reason why they apparently refused to register my child has become nul and void. I am a single mother of THREE trying to apply for SASSA but I dont have a birth certificate for my ******* alien child...