Worst service ever

It was the worst decision of my life to to do debt counsiling. I hate them. It feels like im never going to get rid of them. They are making so much money out of me. Im struggling. I cant afford to survive anymore. My debt is about R60000. They deduct R3080 every month. Im already 3 months with them. That already works out at R110000. And Im still left with about 2 years. They suppose to help people. Not to make money out of me. Im thinking. Im think to stop all payments. The bank can come and reposes everything. Not that I have much left. People. Me and my wife are living in a small back room. We are suffering. They give no financial relief. Worst mistake of my life and it might end up in me taking my life. Is there anyone that can help or give advise. ***