Clicks violated my rights and dignity

I went to clicks carlton center to buy a few toiletries. When i was about to go out i noted that a male security guard was going through womans bags searching them, coz he was busy i asked a femalw clicks employee to search my bags she told me its allowed and that a man can search my personal bag i told her that's not allowed she searched my bags and i told her the security can check my purchases. He startes saying i think im special and ngyaphapha. This was a second time he spoke to me in this manner once 2 weeks ago and then today. I asked to speak to a manager the 1st thing sbe said to me was "what did u provoke him with" no 1 came to my rescue. I am appalled that in a country where woman are constantly violated me refusing to be searched by a male is seen as being provoked. I spent r800. I will never again go to any clicks. I will search for a links pharmacy or dischem stores if that's what it has to be.