**** this place as I feel ****** still lives

Wow this must have been the worst experience I have ever been through in my life and I thought we lived in a new South Africa. So we arrive at the restaurant and a colored waitress tells us we may sit anywhere, as we seek out a table we sit down and waited for more than 20 minutes to receive menus. Apart from this a African waiter was helping the table in front of us and spoke to the people at the table at the back of us. Eventually I got so annoyed that I got up and approached him and said that we have been waiting for more than 20 minutes at that table for menus , he had the nerve to tell me what table ,where are you sitting, I looked at him and said you saw us because you were helping a table in front of us my man. I then walked back sat at our table and a another gentlemen came to serve us as he said this was his section to serve , he brought us drinks and asked if we going to order and I stated not now. So bare in mind this was his section, not long after another white waitress came and said hi sir are u ordering and it felt so forceful and really made us feel that we did not belong, because apart from the waiters working there my gf and I were the only people of color and because she is very fair the stairs we received were so awkward and uncomfortable. To the African waiter my man your stance appalling , how do u seat and assist other people before us as we were seated in the restaurant for more than 20 minutes. I thought colour no longer mattered in this new South Africa but I guess I was wrong, wake the **** up you not superior to make others feel inferior as we all bleed red.