Maternity wards suck

My wife is pregnant and she is 1 month and 3 weeks early then her due date she was taken to bara but I as her husband was not allowed by the security guards yet there were other people who was allowed my wife need me to get her clothing etc.as this is our first child if security could be more understanding and allow the fathers through it would be highly appreciative I don't see how other people who aren't even immediate family can enter the hospital yet the father can't and we supposed to be a free country