****** still alive in SA

So myself and my husband decided to book at budmarsh for the night to get out of pretoria a bit. We called and reception was bad as the weather was bad but managed to book. Took a drive there and was recieved nicely made payment and we're asked to wait whilst room is being prepared. Whilst sitting admiring the place the manager Mike Putter came to ruine our day. He came and asked if we had paid and I said yes then he said that's unfortunate as we don't allow kids. My husband asked so why were we not told this when we walked in. He says answering that doesn't change the fact that they don't allow kids. We were with out 4 year daughter and told him we coming from pretoria of which he didn't care about. I'm certain that had it been a white family they could have been treated different. After arguing with husband he then says we can allow us to stay under condition we stay in the room. As if we not paying! I'm disgusted by this pathetic service. He could have come to us and apologized for the inconvenience but we black and don't deserve an apology I guess.