Donor Expenses Are Not Covered And I am Unwell

I am due for transplant, and I found a donor who is willing to help me unconditionally. At first, the donor tests costed around R19000 and the Medical aid did not pay, Reason: Donor is not the member. We did other tests and they costed about R11000, Still the medical aid is not paying because donor is not on the medical aid. Why must I suffer while I have someone who is willing to assist. Are you prioritizing funds over lives? I have been with Bonitas since 2007/08. They did the stool tests recently and still Bonitas does not want to pay. It took me an arm and leg to write this review. I am unwell but still forced myself to write this :-(