Unhelpful and not solving my problem

Had dinner with my Brother in law just now. Both paid with card. He got a sms with the payment details and I did not. None of us have changed anything. So somehow Absa have changed something for me and not him, which nullifies the one answers above about not sending sms's. Can you please explain this. Secondly the day that Absa stop understaffing the branches is when I will visit a branch.