No benefits for using Absa as a primary bank

I am ready to walk away completely from Absa. They have ridiculous charges for their cashsend option. I just incurred another hefty charge of R37 for sending R1500 through their cashsend option. I thought changing from cheque to savings would ease the charges but instead the charges are gettining worse. I cant not mention the R900 charge for 4 cashsends I made in December 2022. I experienced this charge while traveling from one province to another and while pouring petrol my card declined due to the R900 deduction which when logging onto the app saw that it was bank charges.

I feel ********** as a client who has been getting my salary through my ABSA account for almost 8years now. I have not seen any benefits and am starting to fear that I'll keep loosing.