MY Money is not really my money when I can't transfer it Cross border

CMA (Common Monetary Area. It angers me to the core that I am not able to transfer MY OWN money from SA to Namibia with these new BS CMA policies. I have tried every option available to me (EVERYTHING) on the Absa App and Desktop and yet I am not able to transfer my own money from Absa to Bank Windhoek. This forces me to use my ABSA card abroad and the banks smile all the way with their exorbitant banking fees cross border. We as the customer always pull on the short end and money has ZERO value these days. HOW CAN I GET MY OWN MONEY?? There has to be a way.