Money Not Safe With ABSA

I am so sick and tired with ABSA almost every month I have to reverse ********** debit orders and now I hear that am going to be charged R26 for a debit order I did not authorise. Why does ABSA not ensure that the debit order is ******* before allowing it to be processed..? Is it my fault..? This is nonsense literally every month...!!! As a premium client paying over R350 a month on bank charges just for my cheque card I do not expect such nonsense, may I should pack my bags and go to the bank where they can help me, as a matter the have been calling me. Am very tired of this nonsense you guys must put a stop or am going.