Discriminated by Absa homeloan dept

I feel very disappointed and upset at Absa homeloans dept. I also feel discriminated against, as a black female, who works hard, running a small business.I and my partner have been trying to apply for a homeloan for more than a month. The bank had offered 2.8 million. We submitted all the necessary docs. They are making all the excuses not to fund us and help us have a home for our kids. It has been very frustrating. I was reading on news online, that there were partners who were just offered homeloan by Absa, without even applying, i found that shocking to learn about. Hope to get help. My application number is ***.