DIGITAL BANKING FEES Again!!!!!!!!

A month ago I queried digital transaction fees that have been added to my account. I was informed the fees were because of money that I transferred from my one account to my other. When I queried why that suddenly attracted fees, I was informed it was from payments I made to Edgars (where there is not even the option to send POP) and my husband (who is also with Absa). Now I see another digital banking fee on my account this month!!!! I have requested that every notification that is activating fees on my account must be cancelled, but it is still not!!!! I also made sure when I made a payment that I did not select POP to be e-mailed or sms'ed to any of the parties, so what is the fee for??? How difficult can it be??? I wonder if R10 is added to every customer account, how much money Absa is taking from people that never check their accounts every month!?!?