Change of debit order date

WILL NEVER DO BUSINESS AGAIN WITH ABSA.A JOSEPH CALLED ME ONCE TO TELL ME MY ACCOUNT IS IN ARREARS,I PAID IT IN FULL REQUESTING FOR THE 4TH TIME TO CHANGE MY DEBITORDER DATE AS I GET PAID ON THE 10TH AND NOT THE 27TH.NO EVERY MONTH THEY STILL DEBIT THE 27TH AND THEN IT RETURN UNPAID BECAUSE I GET PAID THE 10TH.SEND EMAILS 3 TIMES ALREADY TO [Email Removed] AND TO [Email Removed] BUT STILL NOTHING IS HAPPENING.AND EVERYTIME I MUST CARRY THE R155 FOR THE DEBITORER THAT IS SENDED BACK AND NOW STANDARD BANK DO NOT WANT TO GIVE ME AN 2ND BOND ON MY HOUSE BECAUSE OF THIS &^%*( BANK DEBIT THAT IS RETURNING.ABSA IS %^&*()