Bankkoste belaglik!!!!

At first i have been a loyal Absa Custumer for the past 10 years,at first i had a savings account and change to cheque account to pay less and save on my rewards.For this month my bankfees was R21.00 for absa rewards,R98.00 monthly account fees,transaction fees R1.05,Administration Headoffice fees R414.00.Note that i did not draw money at a other atm than absa and was less than 5 times.Absa just take money from my account with no reason.Why do i have to pay so much.My second question is why do absa leak my bank account to online companies,they approved a debit on my account without my authorisation which i think is unfair towards the client which trust a bank like absa to keep his money save.I would like my administration money be refunded to me,because i feel i do pay monthly account fees on my current account