Absa Trust making my life a living hell

I am jobless and absa expect me to live with R4500 monthly, pay my kids fees, buy groceries, pay for their transport. I have a taxi which I need funds to register with the industry asrlwasr then I can add to the mere R4500 which does not meet my monthly needs. Nothing I ask for is ever taken into consideration. I sent emails and all I get is empty promises.