Absa the bank that does not care

I am absolutely disgusted with Absa. If you go through financial difficulties because you cannot find a job after being retrenched you keep paying half your bond they still won't help but want to foreclose the property. Also to mention that half my bond is insurance of R3600 what a *******. I have sent over 8000 applications for jobs but still not coming right due to my age. I am a single parent with no financial assistance.