Absa pre approval loans don't apply chances are you will be declined

It's been 2 years now that absa phones me and ask if I want a loan! I have said yes sure and everytime I get approved and then declined! Last year you approved me for 350k loan and absa declined due to my payslip showed no deductions and this year absa said I qualify for 250k loan and I asked my work to give me payslips with the correct deductions and now you decline me again?? My banker told me last time absa don't know how my incomes work and the reason they decline me !maybe I should have asked her to do the application! Anyway can absa pls remove me from there system seeing absa only offer me loans and never once do I get an approved! With other banks the come back to you and say sir we can't do 250k but we can help with 180k exct! Absa you don't get any service like that and absa takes very long to get back to clients! Pls remove me from all advertising or offers cause it's a waste of time