Absa bank Vincent par**** A very angry client!!!!!!!

I went to absa bank Vincent park east london on the 25th of October as I recieved a messaged to tell me to make sure I have funds as there's a place called loans unlimited that will be taking off a debit order. so I went straight to absa and said to them I need to stop this before it happens because I cannot afford to pay bank charges because it's going to bounce. They said to me they cannot stop it before it happens but when it does I must come straight in and they will make sure I don't pay the bank charges and they will block the user from taking money as this was a ***** situation and I don't have any loans with this company. On the 31s of Oct they loans unlimited company tried to take the money and it bounced. I went back to the bank as I was told I should. the story changed to they can only stop the debit order but if the reference is changed then they can try again to take. but because it's being reversed I wont pay bank charges. Well guess what today I get paid and because I have a solid budget and every cent goes to debit orders they have taken R357 for bank charges. Now once again my account in in arrears. I am so so angry. Now I cant even buy nappies for my child!!!!!!!!!