ABSA Bank Charges

I have been paying bank fees for the last 3 to 4 months to the amount of R1500 sometimes even R2000. They have been killing me with bank charges. I complain about people debiting my account and I will cancel a debit order yet it will still be allowed almost everyday or second day. I get charged for every little thing I do and I'm sick of them. I'm closing my account and moving banks. It's disgusting!!! With this sort of bank charges I shouldnt even be asked to come into the bank. When I asked I was told it's all the instant payments I do, then why not check and offer me another plan. This month I made sure not to do alot of instant payments yet I see it's still the same. This is bad. They supposed to be protecting our money but they not!!!